Gimme my water!
It's nice to have a waiter who is not in your face every minute of the evening, but service people should be available. We only saw our waiter when he took our drink order, brought the drinks and took our food order, and brought the food. Other than that, he only cleared the dishes (which he did without asking if we were finished--I was not but my mouth was full when he snatched my plate away and he was gone before I could protest!) and brought the check. This was just unacceptable.