This is Victoria. Of course people will stare. Don't worry about them, or what they think.
Just go in, order your food, eat and enjoy yourselves. My lady and I eat out quite often, and we don't bother with other diners unless they're intruding into our space, which they never do. And the food we order is rarely bad.
Don't base your judgment on just one occasion, or even two. We go to the Norteno a lot. Their waitresses are okay, and they have one who is really negligent, but their food is really good, so we keep going there.
I can understand how the diners in Ramsey's are cliquish. But that's THEIR problem, right?
I find the opposite of you pooty tang...I felt descriminated against for being white and a non smoker. The food was greasy and my friend's chicken was burnt. I won't go back nor recommend this place. If you aren't in the click with the people working there I wouldn't doubt if they spit in your food.
if u aint white, u aint right... i walked in and everyone in there literally stopped eating and stared at me for a few minutes... i'm an average looking person, no freak or nething. the food and service also sucked. i will never go back or encourage ne one to...