the reason servers ask if you want something
By A Yahoo! Contributor, 12/20/05
the only thing that servers do not ask about is your drink, it's the first and last thing you get while dining. everything else they need to ask for. sometimes people do not want more salad or breadsticks. so if the server brings out more breadsticks and salad and the guests do not eat it then it's a waiste and it takes up room on the table.